how does... are we dating the same guy work? does your photo on there eventually get burried amongst new post?

Quick scoop: In “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” groups, people usually post a man’s photo or profile and ask others if they recognize him or have dated him. The post can stay visible as long as it remains in the group, but it may get pushed down by newer posts rather than fully disappearing.

How it works

Members typically share screenshots from dating apps, ask for experiences, and others comment with what they know. The idea is to crowdsource warnings or confirm whether someone is seeing the same person.

Does your photo get buried?

Usually, yes. In busy groups, newer posts can push older ones lower in the feed, so your photo may become less visible over time, but it is not automatically removed just because newer posts appear.

What to expect

• Posts can be seen, commented on, saved, or screenshotted by other members.

• Even if a post is no longer near the top, it may still be searchable or resurfaced by comments.

• In private groups, “private” does not mean fully private in practice, because screenshots and resharing can still happen.

Caution

These groups can be useful for safety, but they can also spread unverified claims, so people should stick to facts and avoid exaggeration. Deleting a post does not guarantee it is gone everywhere.

The short version: it usually gets buried by newer posts, but not erased.

TL;DR: It works like a private community warning board, and yes, older photos/posts usually sink lower as new ones come in, but they can still linger or be copied.