when do elena and damon get together

Elena and Damon officially get together in season 4, episode 7 of The Vampire Diaries , titled “My Brother’s Keeper,” when they finally sleep together and start a romantic relationship.

Many fans also point to season 4’s later episodes, especially “Graduation” (season 4, episode 23), as the point where Elena, free of the sire bond, makes it clear that her love for Damon is genuine and chooses him emotionally as well as physically.

In simple terms: they first become a couple in season 4, episode 7, and that choice is fully reaffirmed by “Graduation” at the end of the season.

Information gathered from public forums or data available on the internet and portrayed here.