The safest answer is: ask politely and keep it in Roblox-safe wording. Roblox can be strict about direct off-platform contact, so avoid pushing for private info or repeating the request if they seem uncomfortable.

Simple ways to ask

  • “Hey, do you use Discord?”
  • “Want to keep chatting somewhere else?”
  • “If you’re okay with it, we can connect outside Roblox.”
  • “Do you want to trade socials?”

These are softer than asking for a Discord tag directly, which some Roblox guidance and developer discussions say can be restricted or treated as personal info collection.

Safer approach

  1. Talk a bit in-game first so the ask feels natural.
  2. Ask once, clearly, and let them decide.
  3. If they say yes, move to a place where they can share it voluntarily.
  4. Don’t try to bypass chat filters with obvious misspellings or coded terms, since that can still be a problem.

Example message

“Hey, you seem cool. Do you have Discord, or somewhere else you like to chat?” That keeps it respectful and low-pressure. In Roblox discussions, people also suggest using social links, groups, or other approved contact paths instead of forcing a direct Discord exchange.

Practical note

If this is for a game, server, or collaboration, the cleanest method is usually to invite them to a group, community space, or profile social link first, then let them choose whether to continue off-platform.

Would you like a few versions of the message for casual, friendly, or more confident vibes?