The phrase “how long you been with her?” is an informal way of asking “How long have you been with her?” , which usually means “How long have you been in a romantic relationship with her?”

What the question means

  • It’s asking for the duration of a relationship (weeks, months, or years).
  • It’s often used in casual conversation, especially in texting, social‑media comments, or meme‑style banter.

How people usually answer

  • Short, direct:
    • “About six months.”
    • “We’ve been together for two years.”
  • Sometimes with a bit of humor or attitude:
    • “Long enough.”
    • “Longer than you’ve been alive.”

In online / forum context

On forums or meme pages, “how long you been with her” often appears as a caption or punchline , especially in clips or stories about awkward or funny dating moments.

If you tell me the exact sentence or screenshot you’re seeing, I can give you a line‑by‑line breakdown of what it implies in that context.