To figure out how many calories to eat , you can use a simple 3-step process: estimate your BMR, multiply by an activity factor to get maintenance calories (TDEE), then adjust up or down based on your goal (lose, maintain, or gain).

Quick Scoop

  • Use a formula (Mifflin-St Jeor) to estimate your BMR (calories burned at rest).
  • Multiply BMR by an activity factor (1.2–1.9) to get your daily maintenance calories (TDEE).
  • Cut roughly 10–20% from TDEE to lose weight, add about 10–20% to gain, or keep it the same to maintain.
  • All numbers are estimates; adjust based on 2–3 weeks of real-world results.
  • For health conditions, pregnancy, eating disorders, or large weight changes, talk to a health professional first.

Step 1 – Calculate Your BMR

Your Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) is how many calories you’d burn if you stayed in bed all day. Mifflin–St Jeor is the standard formula.

For weight in kg, height in cm, age in years:

  • Men:
    BMR=10×weight+6.25×height−5×age+5\text{BMR}=10\times \text{weight}+6.25\times \text{height}-5\times \text{age}+5BMR=10×weight+6.25×height−5×age+5
  • Women:
    BMR=10×weight+6.25×height−5×age−161\text{BMR}=10\times \text{weight}+6.25\times \text{height}-5\times \text{age}-161BMR=10×weight+6.25×height−5×age−161

Mini example:

A 30-year-old woman, 65 kg, 165 cm.
BMR ≈ 10×65+6.25×165−5×30−16110×65+6.25×165−5×30−16110×65+6.25×165−5×30−161 ≈ 650 + 1031 − 150 − 161 ≈ 1370 kcal/day.

This is only the “at rest” number, not what you actually eat.

Step 2 – Add Your Activity (Get TDEE)

Next, convert BMR into Total Daily Energy Expenditure (TDEE) by multiplying it by an activity factor.

Common activity multipliers:

  • Sedentary (little/no exercise): BMR × 1.2
  • Lightly active (light exercise 1–3 days/week): BMR × 1.375
  • Moderately active (3–5 days/week): BMR × 1.55
  • Very active (hard exercise 6–7 days/week): BMR × 1.725
  • Extra active (physical job or 2× training): BMR × 1.9

Continuing the example (BMR ≈ 1370):

  • If she’s moderately active:
    TDEE ≈ 1370 × 1.55 ≈ 2120 kcal/day.

That ~2120 kcal is her maintenance estimate: what likely keeps her weight about the same.

Step 3 – Adjust for Your Goal

Once you have TDEE, you tweak it based on whether you want to lose, maintain, or gain.

Typical adjustments:

  • Lose weight:
    • Mild: TDEE − 10%
    • Moderate: TDEE − 15–20%
  • Maintain weight:
    • TDEE (0% change)
  • Gain weight:
    • Slow gain: TDEE + 10%
    • Faster gain: TDEE + 15–20%

Example with TDEE 2120:

  • Mild fat loss (−10%): about 1900 kcal/day.
  • Moderate fat loss (−20%): about 1700 kcal/day.
  • Slow muscle gain (+10%): about 2330 kcal/day.

Very aggressive deficits or surpluses can backfire (muscle loss, low energy, bingeing, or rapid regain), so staying in the 10–20% range is usually more sustainable.

A More “Real Life” Method

Formulas are estimates. Your unique metabolism, step count, fidgeting, and tracking accuracy all change the real number.

A practical, forum-style approach many people use:

  1. Use the formulas or an online calculator to get a starting calorie target.
  1. Eat roughly that amount consistently for 2 weeks while tracking weight daily (or several times a week) and taking weekly averages.
  1. If weight:
    • Stays the same: you’re near maintenance.
    • Drops: you’re in a deficit (probably more than you think).
    • Goes up: you’re in a surplus.
  1. Nudge calories by ~150–250 kcal at a time and watch what happens over the next 1–2 weeks.

This “test and adjust” method is what a lot of coaches use behind the scenes.

Example Scenarios (Walkthrough)

These are just illustrations, not personal medical advice.

  1. Office worker wanting fat loss
    • 28-year-old woman, 70 kg, 165 cm, lightly active.
    • BMR ≈ 10×70 + 6.25×165 − 5×28 − 161 ≈ 1470 kcal.
 * Lightly active TDEE ≈ 1470 × 1.375 ≈ 2020 kcal.
 * Target for moderate loss (−15%): ≈ 1720 kcal/day.
  1. Gym-goer trying to lean bulk
    • 24-year-old man, 80 kg, 180 cm, trains 4–5× per week (moderately active).
    • BMR ≈ 10×80 + 6.25×180 − 5×24 + 5 ≈ 1800 kcal.
 * TDEE ≈ 1800 × 1.55 ≈ 2790 kcal.
 * Slow gain (+10%): ≈ 3070 kcal/day.

What About Macros?

Once you know calories, you can split them into protein, carbs, and fat.

A simple, reasonable starting point:

  • Weight loss:
    • Protein: 25–35% of calories
    • Carbs: 35–45%
    • Fat: 25–35%
  • Maintenance:
    • Protein: 20–30%
    • Carbs: 40–50%
    • Fat: 25–35%
  • Weight gain:
    • Protein: 20–30%
    • Carbs: 45–55%
    • Fat: 20–30%

Many people prefer to set protein first (around 1.6–2.2 g per kg body weight) and fill the rest with carbs and fats.

Important Safety Notes

  • If you have:
    • A history of disordered eating,
    • Significant underweight or rapid weight loss,
    • Chronic illnesses, pregnancy, breastfeeding, or are a teen still growing,
      you should not aggressively restrict calories and should work with a healthcare professional.
  • Online calculators are educational tools , not diagnostics.
  • Recalculate or adjust every 4–6 weeks or after big weight changes, because calorie needs change as your body changes.

Mini HTML Table – Activity Factors

Here is a quick reference in HTML as you requested tables in that format:

html

<table>
  <thead>
    <tr>
      <th>Activity Level</th>
      <th>Description</th>
      <th>Multiplier</th>
    </tr>
  </thead>
  <tbody>
    <tr>
      <td>Sedentary</td>
      <td>Little or no exercise</td>
      <td>BMR × 1.2</td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
      <td>Lightly active</td>
      <td>Light exercise 1–3 days/week</td>
      <td>BMR × 1.375</td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
      <td>Moderately active</td>
      <td>Moderate exercise 3–5 days/week</td>
      <td>BMR × 1.55</td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
      <td>Very active</td>
      <td>Hard exercise 6–7 days/week</td>
      <td>BMR × 1.725</td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
      <td>Extra active</td>
      <td>Physical job or 2× training</td>
      <td>BMR × 1.9</td>
    </tr>
  </tbody>
</table>

TL;DR:
Estimate BMR with Mifflin–St Jeor, multiply by an activity factor to get TDEE, then adjust calories by about 10–20% up or down based on your goal and fine‑tune using 2–3 weeks of tracking.

Information gathered from public forums or data available on the internet and portrayed here.