You can usually unban someone from a private server by opening the server’s member or ban management settings and removing their ban entry, but some games instead require you to shut down/reset the server or reconfigure access. For Roblox Rivals specifically, public posts suggest that bans may be handled through the official Discord appeal flow rather than directly inside the private server, and some users report that false bans are reviewed by staff through Discord support or appeal channels.

What to try

  1. Open the private server’s settings.
  2. Look for a bans , blocked users , or server members section.
  3. Remove the person from the banned list, then save the changes.
  4. If there is no unban option, shut down the server and recreate/reset it if the game supports that.
  5. If the ban came from the game’s moderation system, use the game’s official appeal process instead of trying to bypass it.

Important note

Some guides online describe console commands for older games or different server systems, but those do not reliably apply to every private server, and they are not the right approach for Rivals if the ban is tied to the game’s moderation or anti-cheat system.

Best practice

If this is your own server and the person was banned by mistake, use the admin panel or member list first. If it’s a Rivals ban and not just a private-server restriction, the safer path is to appeal through the official community or Discord route rather than trying workarounds.

TL;DR

For a normal private server, remove the user from the ban/member list; for Rivals game bans, use the official appeal process because the unban is likely handled by staff, not the private server itself.