Demi Engemann has been accused of leaving a now‑deleted Instagram comment mocking Marciano Brunette by bringing up his deceased father in a very cruel way. Multiple outlets and forum posts say the comment included her asking if Marciano’s dad was a “pussy” too and saying he would be looking down disappointed in what an embarrassment Marciano had become.

Quick scoop

  • The drama comes from the crossover between Vanderpump Villa and The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives , where Demi and Marciano were already feuding over alleged unwanted touching and conflicting stories about what happened in Italy.
  • During a promo collab Marciano did with podcaster Heather McDonald, Demi allegedly went off in the comments, accusing him of groping her “privates” and then escalating by invoking his late father.
  • Screenshots circulated showing a comment along the lines of: “Was your daddy this big of a pussy too? I’m sure he’s looking down so disappointed in what an embarrassment you’ve turned out to be,” which has since been deleted but widely reposted by blogs, Facebook groups, and Reddit threads.

How Marciano reacted

  • Marciano has called Demi’s alleged comment about his dad “beyond sickening” and said that attacking his deceased father crossed a line compared with their usual back‑and‑forth.
  • He has talked about pursuing legal action against Demi over what he says are false sexual assault allegations and defamatory comments, saying he wants her to “regret every lie she’s ever told” and hinting she may not be on TV again after he is done in court.

What fans and forums are saying

  • Reality TV blogs and fan subreddits are almost universally condemning Demi’s remark about Marciano’s dad as going too far, even among people who are otherwise divided on whether they are “Team Demi” or “Team Marciano.”
  • Posters point out the hypocrisy of Demi publicly saying “no one deserves the hate they receive” while also making such an extreme dig at someone’s deceased parent, which many fans describe as “sick in the head” or unforgivable.

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