“Berrisexual” is an emerging microlabel in LGBTQ+ spaces for someone who can be attracted to all genders, but is mainly attracted to women or feminine/androgynous genders and only rarely to men or masculine genders.

Quick meaning

  • The core idea is uneven attraction:
    • Stronger pull toward women and feminine-aligned or androgynous genders.
* Little, infrequent, or “lighter” attraction to men or masculine-aligned genders.
  • Some definitions describe it as “attracted to every gender but very rarely to men or men-aligned genders.”

Where it comes from

  • The term is reported to have been coined by a Tumblr user (genderstarbucks) around late 2023, then spread via Tumblr, Reddit, TikTok, and Urban Dictionary.
  • It is often described as a microlabel , meaning a very specific identity term inside the broader bi/pan/omni spectrum.

How it relates to other labels

  • Berrisexuality is usually framed as similar to pansexuality or omnisexuality because attraction can extend across all genders, just with a clear preference pattern.
  • Articles and wikis note that what sets it apart is that softer or occasional pull toward masculinity rather than equal attraction to all genders.

Serious label vs. joke usage

  • In LGBTQ+ community articles and wikis, berrisexuality is treated as a genuine microlabel people use to describe their real orientation and comfort with “feminine-leaning” attraction.
  • Some slang sites also play with the word more humorously (for example, joking about being “obsessed with berries”), but these pieces themselves caution not to treat that as a real sexuality label in serious conversations.

If you’re questioning

  • If your attraction pattern is “mostly toward women/feminine/androgynous people, with rare or light attraction to men/masculine people,” berrisexual might feel like a more precise term than broad labels like bi or pan.
  • People online often emphasize that microlabels are optional tools: you can use berrisexual, stick with bi/pan, or use no label at all, depending on what feels most comfortable.

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