Elope means to run away to get married, usually in a small, private, or secretive way rather than having a big traditional wedding.

Simple definition

  • Traditionally, to elope meant running away secretly to get married, often without parental permission.
  • In modern usage, it often just means having a very small, intimate wedding with few or no guests, focused mainly on the couple rather than a big event.

Traditional meaning

  • Classic elopements involved couples slipping away from home or family to marry in secret, sometimes because their families did not approve.
  • The secrecy and “running away” element are what made eloping different from a normal planned wedding.

Modern meaning today

  • Today, many people use “elope” to describe a small, intentional wedding day without the usual large guest list, venue, and formal reception.
  • It usually emphasizes an intimate experience (like getting married on a mountain, at city hall, or on a trip) where the focus is really on the two of you, not on hosting a big event.

Extra nuances

  • In non-wedding contexts, “elope” can still be used more literally to mean “slip away” or “escape,” but that usage is less common in everyday conversation now.
  • The noun form is elopement , which refers to the act or event of eloping.

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