Quick Scoop

Separation anxiety is the fear or distress someone feels when they’re away from a person they’re strongly attached to, such as a parent, caregiver, partner, or child. It can be a normal developmental stage in young children, but if it is intense, long-lasting, or interferes with daily life, it may be separation anxiety disorder.

What it looks like

Common signs include:

  • Excessive worry before or during separation.
  • Refusing school, work, or errands because of fear of being apart.
  • Fear that something bad will happen to the loved one or to oneself.
  • Trouble sleeping alone or away from home.
  • Physical symptoms like stomachaches, headaches, nausea, or dizziness.

Normal vs. disorder

A little separation anxiety can be normal, especially in young children. It becomes more concerning when the anxiety is out of proportion to the situation, doesn’t match the person’s age or developmental stage, and starts disrupting everyday functioning.

What helps

Treatment often includes therapy, especially cognitive behavioral therapy, and sometimes medication for more severe cases. Supportive routines, gradual practice with short separations, and reassurance can also help.

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