Guests usually stand when the bride enters and walks down the aisle, then sit again once the couple reaches the front or the officiant cues them to do so.

Typical timing

  • Stand as the bride begins her entrance or when the procession starts, depending on the ceremony style.
  • Stay standing through the walk down the aisle if the couple wants that tradition.
  • Sit when the officiant asks, often once the bride and groom are together at the altar.

Other moments

  • Some weddings also have guests stand when the newly married couple is introduced after the ceremony.
  • Guests may stand again when the couple enters the reception for their first welcome.

Important note

  • It is not a strict rule; some couples prefer guests to remain seated so everyone can see better, especially for the entrance.
  • The safest move is to follow the officiant, emcee, or the couple’s instructions for that specific wedding.

If you want, I can also give you a very short “when to stand / when to sit” wedding etiquette cheat sheet.