when you add soemone on instagram do they get added automatically on FB ?
No — adding someone on Instagram does not automatically add them on Facebook. The two apps are linked only if you set up sharing or account-center options, and even then that usually affects posts or profile connections, not an automatic friend add.
What actually happens
- If you follow someone on Instagram, that does not create a Facebook friend request.
- If your Facebook and Instagram accounts are connected, you may see options to share content across both apps, but that is separate from adding people as friends.
- Some settings can make Instagram posts or stories share to Facebook automatically, but that is about content sharing, not adding accounts.
Simple example
If you follow a friend on Instagram today, they will only be added on Instagram unless you separately add them on Facebook yourself.
TL;DR
Instagram follows and Facebook friends are different, so one does not automatically create the other.