You can think of “which Game of Thrones house am I?” as a personality question: each Great House maps pretty well to certain values, flaws, and vibes that people identify with.

Below is a quick, self-assessment style guide so you can decide where you fit. You can mentally pick answers as you go and see which description feels most like you.

House Stark – Duty, loyalty, quiet strength

Choose Stark if you are:

  • Very loyal to family and friends, even when it costs you.
  • Honorable to a fault, you hate lying and backstabbing.
  • More comfortable in small circles than big flashy social scenes.
  • The “reliable one” people call in a crisis.

You’re likely Stark if your instinct is: “Do the right thing, even if it hurts.”

House Lannister – Ambition, image, strategy

Choose Lannister if you:

  • Care about reputation, status, or how you’re perceived in public.
  • Are ambitious and don’t like being underestimated.
  • Think three moves ahead and enjoy negotiation or politics at work or in life.
  • Can be generous, but you expect loyalty in return.

You’re likely Lannister if your instinct is: “Win first, justify later.”

House Targaryen – Idealism, fire, intensity

Choose Targaryen if you:

  • Feel emotions deeply and hate injustice or oppression.
  • Have a strong “chosen path” energy: big visions, big risks.
  • Sometimes swing between calm and intense when you care about something.
  • Are drawn to the dramatic, symbolic, or slightly rebellious side of life.

You’re likely Targaryen if your instinct is: “If the world is broken, I’ll remake it.”

House Baratheon – Impulse, willpower, stubbornness

Choose Baratheon if you:

  • Act first, think later, but usually land on your feet.
  • Have a strong presence: people notice when you enter a room.
  • Are stubborn; once you decide something, it’s very hard to move you.
  • Enjoy competition and don’t like being told what to do.

You’re likely Baratheon if your instinct is: “Force your way through, don’t tiptoe.”

House Greyjoy – Independence, toughness, outsider energy

Choose Greyjoy if you:

  • Value freedom more than comfort or approval.
  • Don’t mind being the “outsider” or black sheep.
  • Respect toughness, resilience, and self-reliance.
  • Can come off as harsh, but you’re fiercely loyal to a very small circle.

You’re likely Greyjoy if your instinct is: “What is dead may never die.”

House Tyrell – Charm, growth, subtle power

Choose Tyrell if you:

  • Use charm, friendliness, or social intelligence as your main “weapon.”
  • Prefer influence over direct confrontation.
  • Like aesthetics: good food, fashion, art, or a beautiful environment.
  • Often know more than you let on and smile through conflict.

You’re likely Tyrell if your instinct is: “Bloom quietly, then take over the garden.”

House Martell – Boundaries, pride, controlled passion

Choose Martell if you:

  • Have a strong sense of personal boundaries and respect.
  • Tend to remember slights but don’t always show it.
  • Value pleasure and freedom, but on your own terms.
  • Prefer calculated responses over public outbursts.

You’re likely Martell if your instinct is: “I forgive slowly and forget never.”

House Arryn – Principles, distance, order

Choose Arryn if you:

  • Like things structured, predictable, and clearly “right or wrong.”
  • Prefer distance and safety over chaos and noise.
  • Can seem aloof, but you’re very firm about your convictions.
  • Are protective of your inner world and let few people truly in.

You’re likely Arryn if your instinct is: “Better safe and principled than reckless.”

House Tully – Relationships, empathy, balance

Choose Tully if you:

  • Put family and close relationships at the center of your decisions.
  • Are often mediating between people, trying to keep the peace.
  • Want a stable, emotionally secure life more than power or glory.
  • Feel things deeply but try to act responsibly.

You’re likely Tully if your instinct is: “Family first, then everything else.”

Very quick “flowchart” in words

Ask yourself these:

  1. What do you value most?
    • Honor and loyalty → Stark or Tully.
 * Power, reputation, winning → Lannister or Baratheon.

 * Freedom, independence → Greyjoy or Martell.

 * Justice, change, big vision → Targaryen.

 * Influence through charm and networks → Tyrell.
  1. How do you usually fight?
    • Direct, confrontational → Baratheon, Greyjoy, some Starks.
 * Strategic, political → Lannister, Tyrell, Martell.

 * Symbolic, dramatic, or revolutionary → Targaryen.
  1. What kind of “home base” feels right?
    • Cold but safe and family-centered → Stark or Tully.
 * Rich, golden, and central to everything → Lannister.

 * Sunny, coastal, or southern, with pride and style → Martell or Tyrell.

 * Harsh, sea-battered, and unforgiving → Greyjoy.

If you tell me:

  • What you value most (honor, power, freedom, family, change, etc.)
  • How you handle conflict (avoid, negotiate, confront, scheme, blow up)
  • Whether you feel more like an insider or outsider

I can pin you down to one or two specific houses and explain why they fit you.