In the MomTok drama on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives season 3, there is no single confirmed “mole” who has been definitively named and proven.

Quick Scoop

The “mole” storyline comes from season 3, when Demi Engemann somehow finds out about Jessi Ngatikaura’s affair drama, even though the group claims they’ve cut her off, which sparks a hunt for whoever is leaking info from MomTok. Miranda Hope is heavily suspected on the show because she is friends with Demi and Whitney Leavitt and is more of an outsider at first, but she later says she didn’t even know about Jessi’s situation when it was happening.

What Miranda Has Said

In a later interview, Miranda explains that the “mole” drama was very real but she does not believe there was one single guilty person secretly feeding Demi information. She says that in a big, chatty friend group like MomTok, secrets naturally circulate and the story likely reached Demi through general “circulating talk within the group,” not one deliberate informant.

So… Who Is the Mole in MomTok?

Putting it all together:

  • The show never reveals a clear, single mole with hard proof.
  • Miranda has publicly rejected the idea that she was the leak and points instead to the whole group’s gossip ecosystem.
  • Coverage and recaps describe the mole mystery as real drama but unresolved, leaning toward “group leakage” rather than a dramatic lone traitor.

So the most accurate answer right now is: there isn’t one officially confirmed MomTok mole; the secrets seem to have spread through the wider group rather than from a single person.

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